How To Make A Disastrous HR Job More Exciting, Enjoyable & Fulfilling…Without Calling It Quits!

by Alan Collins

“Sarah” (not her real name) was one of the most knowledgeable employee benefits directors I ever worked with.

However, during the last few years of her 30-year career in HR, she had developed a reputation for being sarcastic, bitter and for pissing people off.

Sadly, when she decided to retire, very few of her colleagues asked about her future plans.

They didn’t give a rip.

But I did.  (Perhaps I had a death wish).


Since she was still relatively young and truly brilliant at what she did, I inquired if she would be doing any employee benefits consulting work since she was now free from corporate handcuffs.

Her response: “HELL…F*CKING…NO!  I’m done doing benefits forever.”

“I’m going back to South Carolina to work in my sister’s thriving gardening business. I love being outdoors.  And I absolutely adore cross-breeding flowers to create unusual varieties, colors and sizes. I can’t wait to get the hell out of here.”

While her direct, in-your-face response didn’t surprise me at all, her answer sure did.  I had no clue what she did away from work.

And I didn’t think any more about our brief conversation until we ran into each other a year later when…

I didn’t recognize her.

She was tanned, twenty pounds lighter and her short brown hair was now tied back into a long, stylish ponytail.  And I couldn’t help but notice a small rose she had now tattooed to her neck.

But what struck me most was the bright, beaming smile that never left her face.

She couldn’t stop talking about everything she was doing now and how excited she was about her new career in gardening.

I couldn’t believe the impact this life change had made on her and I mentioned how great she looked and happy she seemed to be.

She told me that, after all these years, her transformation happened only after pursuing something she was truly passionate about.   

In my mind I wondered: “What a shame. All those years wasted.  If her passion involved the outdoors, gardening and flowers, why in the heck would she sit in a corporate office cube for 30 years crunching health care numbers and recalculating benefit rates over and over until she was blue in the face…bitter and pissed off at the world?”

But I didn’t dare say this.  This was the most pleasant I’d ever seen her and I didn’t want to bring out her demons or ruin this moment.

However, I didn’t have to.

She confessed that, while she really liked employee benefits work, it wasn’t her passion.  She loved her life and career now and had felt stuck in that old benefits job because she couldn’t afford to give up that nice corporate paycheck.  And every day she stayed put only soured her more on the job and the people she worked with.

It made sense to me.

I know lots of HR folks that don’t have the luxury of dropping their HR gig like a hot potato, put their financial well-being at risk, just to chase other interests and passions.

I get it.  I really do.

But…if you’re like Sarah…you don’t have to do what she did.

You don’t have to bury your interests, passions, hobbies and pursuits you have OUTSIDE of work or keep them separate from your HR endeavors.

There is MIDDLE GROUND.  And it is to…

Bring them into your HR day job to make your
life at work 
more enjoyable, exciting and fulfilling.

Now, of course, this strategy isn’t for everyone.

Understandably, some people would prefer to not to mix their personal interests and their work pursuits.

And frankly, some passions are entirely inappropriate to bring into the workplace. For example, if you’re into porn, serial dating or political or religious extremism, you’d be wise to keep your personal and work interests separated.

However, to spark up or energize your work life, you CAN incorporate conventional passions like: antiques, cooking, fitness, movies, golf, sports, biking, hiking, collectibles, animal care, crafts, social media and hundreds of others like these into your HR job

And, if you’re interested, here are a few tips for making it happen:

1.  Look for role models in or outside of your workplace.

One of the my role models in this area is Jeff Carroll.  Jeff is currently Vice President, Client Partnerships at SuccessWise Consulting and a former HR VP in two organizations.

His passion is classic rock ‘n roll music, especially tunes by Bruce Springsteen, Tom Petty, and The Rolling Stones.

He incorporates rock music into all of the presentations he makes to his corporate clients and to students when he makes presentations on college campuses.  He uses rock lyrics and quotes to get across key ideas when coaching corporate executives.  He’s also working on his first book addressing new rules for career management based on…you guessed it…rock music.

All this makes Jeff distinctive, interesting, in-demand and keeps him pumped up about his day job.

In your case:  Are there projects, presentations, programs, co-workers, clients, situations, products, and critical business needs that might be waiting to incorporate those things you’re truly passionate about doing AWAY from work?

2.  Connect with like-minded groups within your organization.

Next, find other people at your workplace who share a similar interests.  Ask others: “What do you like to do for fun? How do you spend your time away from work?” If the company is of any size and your interests are anywhere near the mainstream, you’ll likely discover others who share your passions.

In Sarah’s case, her conversations could have started with people in our company’s Employee Activities Committee.  Most organizations have volunteer groups like these whose job it is to provide fun activities which engage the workforce.  Participating could have offered Sarah opportunities to:

3.  Above all, don’t walk around being a grouch — at least, brainstorm the possibilities.

Despite being an expert in employee benefits, Sarah wasted many years making herself and those around her miserable.  She walked around bitter and angry at the world, which prevented clients and her colleagues from wanting to work with her.

Instead of griping like Sarah, try drawing two circles and listing the core aspects of your organization in one circle and the core aspects of your passion in the other. Then brainstorm ideas for how you could bring your interests and passions to work or how you could connect them to your current company’s business. Finally, see if there are places where the two circles intersect.

In Sarah’s case, her brainstormed list of possibilities could have included:

I don’t know if any of these would have interested her.  But they certainly wouldn’t have hurt.  And I’m sure she could have identified fifty other possibilities like these that could have generated more excitement for her at work.

Worst case scenario:  If you’re burnt out on the HR work you’re doing, look for another job rather than fuming.

All that said, let me wrap up with this…

Bringing your personal passions, your interests and your full authentic self to work and connecting with others who share them is just ONE WAY…but a terrific way… to infuse more excitement into your day job in HR.

And when you’re truly energized, engaged and fulfilled on the job, there is no end to where you can take your HR career.

Think about it.



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About the author: Alan Collins is Founder of Success in HR, Inc. and the author of a variety of best selling books for HR professionals including WINNING BIG IN HR.  He was formerly Vice President – Human Resources at PepsiCo where he led HR initiatives for their Quaker Oats, Gatorade and Tropicana businesses.

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16 Responses to “How To Make A Disastrous HR Job More Exciting, Enjoyable & Fulfilling…Without Calling It Quits!”

  1. Barb Burke Says:

    I always love your insight and this one came just at the right time. Sometimes I need the pick me up too. Thanks.

    I am very passionate about football and consider myself a champion cheerleader. I see synergy with a group of people who each have a unique role and talent yet each works towards the good of the whole. Everyone has value that when applied together make a great team.

    I do quite frequently use my cheerleading ways in presentations and employee counseling to hopefully inspire, motivate, and support employees to work towards a common goal. I love being part of a team and I love seeing people achieving their dreams.

  2. Alan Says:

    Barb, great idea & insight on your part as well. Glad to see you making it happen.

  3. Ajit Pendharkar Says:

    Alan your key insights are always very inspiring I am passionate about Music and cricket. In my conversation I draw many examples from Cricket.Your thoughts have added a new perspective.Great Alan keep it up.cheers.-Ajit

  4. Folu Farotimi Says:

    ….nice piece

  5. Bamike Fadipe Says:

    Thank you Alan for this great insight. It’s a great counsel, so so helpful at this time in my career. I really appreciate.

  6. Chanakya Says:

    Very good stuff, in deed.

  7. Lois Coburn Says:

    I love to run, although I’m not fast, and I love to encourage others to stretch to reach their goals. I combined these two passions, formed a group of co-workers who had never run and together, we trained for a half marathon. I provided a training schedule, led our weekly group runs, never left anyone behind, encouraged them to set small goals for improving each run, until we all crossed the finish line together. Years later, the camaraderie we developed continues. The lessons learned during training have been incorporated into other areas of our personal and professional lives.

  8. Alan Says:

    Awesome, Lois – thanks for sharing!

  9. John Says:

    Alan, good morning. As always your articles and updates always seem to appear at the right time! This one struck a definite nerve…being one of those “30” year HR veterans this article resonated big time. I love this wacky world of HR but I know there is another way to “spin” the passion. I’m a little smarter and wiser now to set up a plan forward. Thanks as always!

  10. Alan Says:

    John, congrats on 30 years! Spin that passion!

  11. Jacqueline Says:

    I definitely see a bit of “Sarah” in me…while I love what I do and truly feel that I have a passion for HR, it pays the bills, gives me satisfaction when I make a great hire, etc., my true passion is in decorating. I’m fortunate to have an office with a floor to ceiling window which brings in lots of natural light, wall space that I can decorate, etc., so I bring my decorating passion to the office, creating a beautiful, comfortable space for myself as well as my employees. Even the men in the office will comment on how serene and inviting my office is…and that tends to make people want to spend time here, opening up about issues and be very willing to talk with me about their concerns, which in turn helps me to better support them. We spend a LOT of time at the office, so why not take the time to make it a place everyone can enjoy?

  12. Alan Says:

    Jacqueline, congrats on bringing your decorating passion to work. Love your quote: “We spend a LOT of time at the office, so why not take the time to make it a place everyone can enjoy?” Indeed, why not. It’s a win-win. Way to go! -Alan

  13. JC Says:

    Alan, your article is very insightful. I’m not in HR (yet), but have a couple of your books and pursuing my Masters in HR Management. I’ve always liked health/wellness/fitness. Most government agencies (fed, state,and local) have some sort of wellness department and/or wellness activities that usually fall under–YEP-Benefits. I’ve involved myself on a volunteer level since I’ve been with my current employer. Two weeks ago, applied to what they call a Wellness Ambassador (annual appointments) and I got accepted today. This will be a way for me to bridge my current position (as I try to transition) to health/fitness, and wellness.

    PS: I have your awesome blog e-book. Unable to snag my name because it is very common & every combination thereof is taken, but I have another name that I am ready to reserve. Thanks so much.

  14. Darrell James Says:

    Great stuff!

  15. Alisa Charles Says:

    Great topic Alan!! Part of being in HR is helping others and making sure everyone else is taken care of. Sometimes that’s true in both our HR careers and in life. While that can be important, it can sometimes cause us to put our aspirations last or not at all. But even keeping up in a small way such as pursuing a hobby, a training or an event in those areas of interest every now and then can be helpful in keeping that passion alive. That’s where the magic is that keeps us happier and more fullfilled in life. Thanks again Alan!!

  16. Anne Says:

    Great article! I know so many people are torn between following their passion or maintaining their lifestyle. I should send them all this article!